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What is habituation? 

Things that you once found exhilarating - a new home, favourite holiday, indulgent purchase, even time spent with your partner - can lose their sparkle, if you experience them over and over again. 

This is human nature, and it's known as habituation. Repeated exposure to the same experiences or objects causes you to habituate to them, so your brain responds less to its stimuli each time. You can stop noticing things and your emotional response lessens. 

There's a difference between knowing something and feeling something. You can know you have a good thing, but if you are habituated to it, you can stop feeling how good it is. 

Take adorable puppies and cute babies, as one study did¹. Photos of these, among other delightful things, were shown 16 times to volunteers. Each time, their facial muscles responsible for smiling - measured by electromyography (EMG) - moved less and less. They also reported feeling less pleasure, yet continued to rate the photos as adorable. 

This showed that while the volunteers knew they enjoyed the babies and puppies, they no longer sparked the same feelings of joy. 

The real-life effects of habituation also go beyond joy. It's linked with depression, anxiety, unhealthy relationships, and risky behaviours - even playing a role in road accidents.

How does habituation work? 

So why do we habituate, if it means finding less joy and forming unhealthy behaviours? The thinking is that it's not all bad. In fact, habituation may be the key to progress, according to Tali Sharot, professor of cognitive neuroscience at University College London (UCL) and MIT (Massachusetts Institute of Technology). 

The professor, who is also a senior research fellow at the Wellcome Trust, explains that our emotional responses to things habituate fast to keep us motivated and drive progress. Sharot gives the example of your first entry level job. If you found it just as exciting - or perhaps overwhelming - 10 years in, you wouldn't be driven to progress in your career².

Ultimately, progress makes us happy, and learning, developing, and changing has helped advance humanity.  

Habituation is also about survival, Sharot argues, because when we stop responding to things that are constant around us, we have more resources to deal with things coming our way that may need some response². 

However, a "delicate balance must be struck" so we can avoid the unhealthy side effects of habituating, as Sharot argues in her book Look again: the power of noticing what was always there.  

What is the harm of habituation? 

Habituation can cause us to feel unsatisfied, bored, restless and greedy. More than this, it's linked to poor mental health and unhealthy behaviours. Enter dishabituation - a psychological trick to help us disrupt the habituation process when we need to³.

Inciting joy, managing low mood 

Re-sparkling

To experience more joy and potentially help manage low mood, Professor Sharot believes that "re-sparkling" - her word for dishabituation - can allow us to see our circumstances with fresh eyes, find more enjoyment in daily life, and become more resilient to life's trials and tribulations. 

This re-sparkling effect also applies to food. For many, food is one of life's great pleasures, but you may not get the same kick out of your favourite weekday lunch meal deal on Friday as you did on Monday, after that weekend break. 

Dépression

Habituation has even been linked to a whole range of mental health problems, according to the neuroscientist. 'For example," says Sharot, "people who habituate to negative events more slowly are more likely to have depressive symptoms.² 

"One study found that students who had received a disappointing grade and bounced back slower than their peers were more likely to have a history of dépression." 

Breaking unhealthy behaviours 

Professor Sharot shares with us some unhealthy patterns that habituation can facilitate. She also explains that taking breaks can trigger dishabituation, helping us to reset. 

Social media anxiety

"Let's take les réseaux sociaux," says the neuroscientist. "You may suspect that your Instagram or Twitter is making you anxious, but you cannot really tell how much it is affecting you because it is always there. It looms in the background like the constant noise of an AC - you don't realise how much of a negative effect the AC noise has until you turn it off and suddenly you go - ooohhh, so much better."   

"The same is true with social media. To really measure its effect, you need to quit for a while - at least a couple of weeks."

She highlights one study where dishabituation improved people's wellbeing. 1000 volunteers who quit Facebook for one month reported being happier, less anxious, and less stressed than the 1000 volunteers who didn't. These people were surprised at their own results - they did not realise how social media affected them until it was gone⁵.   

Toxic relationships

The above is also true for unhealthy relationships. You may suspect that your relationship is making your anxious, but you cannot really tell how much it is affecting you because it is always there.   

Sharot says: "But by taking a break, by which I only mean going away for a few days - on a business trip or to visit a friend - it may be possible to dishabituate. Then you can really feel and notice the impact of the relationship upon your return and assess the extent of damage it is causing."

Risk-taking

People who habituate quicker tend to take more risks in life. Sometimes risk-taking can be enriching, like quitting your job to pursue your dream career. Others, however, risk your health and wellbeing, like unsafe sex and uncontrolled gambling.   

Using virtual reality (VR) technology, Sharot conducted an experiment that involved volunteers going up a sky-rise building, opening a door, and attempting to walk a plank from a great height. "With VR, even though your brain knowns you're on the ground, it's also tricked, and you can experience a surprising level of fear."²  

The volunteers experienced just that - barely taking a small step onto the plank the first attempt. But after many repetitions, habituation kicked in, fear decreased, and volunteers were able to virtually fling themselves off the edge. Sharot observed that those who habituated faster were the people who reported taking more risks in real life.     

How do I dishabituate? 3 approaches 

In real terms, dishabituating simply means breaking up our joyful experiences into bits. We can rarely jump on a big holiday whenever we feel bored and flat, but there are several ways to "re-sparkle", whatever your budget and schedule. 

1. Take small breaks

Effective breaks come in all shapes and sizes, says Sharot:  

• Not switching it up enough? Swap a two-week holiday for a few mini breaks. 

• Understanding your relationship? Try a weekend away from your partner. 

• Social media break? Give it at least two weeks. 

• Like a massage? Even breaks during one makes it more enjoyable.  

 2. Variety is the spice of life

It's not all about breaks. There are other ways to shake things up and get more variety in life, which Sharot says is key: "People who have diversified their lives - perhaps by living in different places, engaging in various projects, and befriending many individuals - tend to have more psychologically rich lives. 

"This is because variety puts you in a state of learning, and research shows that people find so much pleasure in learning, progressing, moving forward. Learning is change - and we can't habituate to change."

Examples: 

• Can't get away? Rearrange or explore new functions of rooms at home. 

• Need more creativity at work? Take a walk or alternate your usual office with a coffee shop. 

• Work not fulfilling? Consider rotating between departments if you need a change.  

Sometimes a big change may be necessary for your happiness. This can feel scary and require some effort, but the long-term results are often worth it. In one study, volunteers who each had a personal change goal in mind flipped a virtual coin.

Those who got heads could go ahead - those with tails could not. After both two weeks and six months, those who made the change were generally much happier⁶.  

3. Imagine the change  

For those times when you simply can't change your situation, let your mind do the work. Laurie Santos, known as Yale University's happiness professor, says using your imagination can help you dishabituate in the moment.  

• Close your eyes. 

• Imagine your life, but without the things you wish to appreciate more. 

• This could be your home, your job, your loved ones, and so on. 

• Create vivid images of what this would be like, in detail and colour.  

• This should help you see your life with fresh eyes.  

 Pour en savoir plus 

1. Itkes et al: Dissociating affective and semantic valence. 

2. Talks at Google: Tali Sharot on Look again: the power of noticing what was always there.  

3. Steiner and Barry: Exploring the mechanism of dishabituation.  

4. Epstein et al: Long-term habituation to food in obese and nonobese women.

5. Allcott et al: The welfare effects of social media.  

6. National Bureau of economic Research: To Change, or not to change? Just flip a coin.