Vivre avec le trouble d'amertume post-traumatique

Qu'est-ce que le PTED ?

If you're living in the UK, the chances are you won't have heard of PTED (post-traumatic embitterment disorder). The much more well-known mental illness that's triggered by traumatisme est PTSD (post-traumatic stress disorder).

The key difference between these two conditions is that PTSD centres around niveaux de stress, while PTED centres around embitterment (the feeling of anger and bitterness, and a strong sense of injustice). PTED is a severe emotional reaction to a negative life event that subsequently takes over a person's life (prompting the description "revenge syndrome").

La National Bullying Helpline emphasises that people with post-traumatic embitterment disorder "are typically good people who have worked hard at something important" that is then unexpectedly destroyed by an event. Feeling betrayed, they are left crippled with a range of emotions, including stress, dépression, frustration, and hopelessness.

How do you treat PTED?

While people in the USA and wider Europe are being treated for PTED, in the UK this condition remains largely unrecognised. This means that many undiagnosed or misdiagnosed people aren't getting the right kind of help and support.

For example, the therapies that can work for PTSD and stress - like la méditation et shaking exercises - are unlikely to work on the embittered mind. Christine Pratt, the founder of the National Bullying Helpline, has led the campaign for post-traumatic embitterment disorder recognition in the UK. She believes that a PTED patient can respond well to wisdom therapy, a type of la thérapie cognitivo-comportementale which aims to provide a person with a new perspective and coping tools.

Living with PTED: Chris' story

The first step towards working through any illness is understanding it. Chris shares his experience with PTED following an unexpected event at work, and what it means to him to find a medical term that encompasses what he's going through.

My PTED experience

"I've found that validation is very difficult. Did something happen the way I remember it? In my circumstances, all the people who can validate my version of events have made their choice not to engage with me, and you have to learn to move forwards and attempt to let things go the best you can.

"Learning to say "that's on you" has been a hard lesson. After nearly 14 years of service and feeling that my employer was the only place I could reach out to for support, I find myself asking "why did they ignore me?" and "what did I do wrong?". It's difficult coming to peace with the fact that you may not get any answers to your questions.

"I’ve realised that I'm storing short-term memories that I only recall slightly later. This is a natural brain reflex related to trauma, and I do this to "protect myself" from any real or perceived situations that could cause me to react. This can sometimes work in my favour, and sometimes not.

"It can also be very difficult to share what's going on with those closest to you. You tend to cut yourself off or keep quiet to protect people. But in the long run, that can cause its own set of issues.

Finding a medical name

"When I received a diagnosis of C-PTSD (ESPT complexe), I felt that for once in my life I was being listened to. It meant that I could start to research and investigate how to accept, resolve, and move forwards.

"As I was researching, I came across the term PTED. Before January 2022, I had never heard of PTED and getting a "name" for the issues I've experienced has helped me in trying to make sense of it all. I am actively pursuing an official diagnosis, as it's not readily recognised in the UK as of yet.

"When you read or are told about a condition that youhaven't heard about before, there can be a sigh of relief as your thoughts and feelings are validated. Of course, it can also have the opposite effect and result in further confusion and questioning (for example, I found myself asking "how many un-named diagnoses are there?" and "do I need to continue to pursue medical scans?").

"Now, armed with reputable resources on PTED, I've started on a journey of recovery. Articles and resources have also enabled me to share the information with friends who have supported me."

Healthcare services and treatments for PTED

"It is essential to keep a GP involved. In the early stages when things were really bad, I'd be in touch with my GP a couple of times a week. This reduced over time, and I now tend to have a review every three or four weeks and also know how to contact them or other services in an emergency if I need to.

"Due to certain traits that manifest as a result of the trauma, the emergency services have been called a few times and this probably fast-tracked me through the NHS waiting list in certain areas. They have been great, supportive, and not at all judgemental.

"I am currently on the NHS CBT (cognitive behavioural therapy) waiting list. In 2020, I had a series of 12 psychotherapy sessions which gave me some valuable tools, although I know I need more.

"Prescribed medication has helped to "even me out". They by no means solve any of the issues, but I use them as a crutch to smooth out any bumps in the road. I'm currently on mirtazapine for depression, escitalopram for the drastic mood swing cycles, and propranolol for anxiety."

PTED support networks

"People need to know it's not easy but there are organisations out there that are invaluable in supporting individuals through a severe crisis.

Things I have learned and am still learning about PTED

"It’s a terrifying journey, and I do fear for the people out there with little experience of mental health problems who suddenly find themselves in a similar position and feel that the only "way out" is to listen to the inner voice.

"Whilst I battle with this on a daily basis, I am now able to rationalise my feelings and instead of burying them, I work through them. I still have a long, long way to go, but for the first time, I'm optimistic about my future."